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  • Whitewood, SD
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How do you stop the downward spiral?
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Started this discussion. Last reply by Carol Pavel Aug 15, 2009.

 

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Carol Pavel and Kimber Beck are now friends Oct 11, 2010
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Carol Pavel commented on Kimber Beck's blog post 'Day 10'
Take one day at a time. Don't look too far ahead. It can be terribly overwhelming. The holidays are a huge mountain to climb. Three years later, we still hate them. We used to decorate for Christmas the day after Thanksgiving so the kids could…
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Carol Pavel commented on Kimber Beck's blog post 'Just trying to make it through each day'
My heart goes out to you! The journey you are beginning is not an easy one. Grief is hard work. You have made an important step by reaching out to others who have traveled this path. Those of us who have been there understand what you are feeling.…
Oct 5, 2010
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Carol Pavel replied to Carol Pavel's discussion 'How do you stop the downward spiral?'
Yes, Ruth, it did help. With experience comes wisdom. I am so sorry you had to gain that wisdom. Life is not fair, and although we always knew that, it doesn't make it any easier. We lost our 28 year old son in a work related accident. It was…
Aug 15, 2009
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Ruth Laumer replied to Carol Pavel's discussion 'How do you stop the downward spiral?'
Hi Carol! Just to let you know....I lost my husband, best friend and the father of my children 8 eight years ago very suddenly from a brain anyerisum!! I thought my life was OVER!! It was so awful and I not been alone in over 30 years and was too…
Aug 14, 2009
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This is my favorite photo. Could Brian look any happier?
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How do you stop the downward spiral?

What do you do when you find that what little that's left of your life starts to crumble down around you? When the hole keeps getting deeper and you lose sight of the top and the hope that there is a way out? It's been almost 2 years now and the whole journey has been 1 step forward and 2 steps back which means I'm losing the battle.
Discussion posted by Carol Pavel Jul 10, 2009
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Kim Morsching left a comment for Carol Pavel
Oh, Carol. What a beautiful posting. Love your garden picture. Brian would love your efforts. Love you Kim
Jun 18, 2009
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Brian's Garden at Butte Vista Farm

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Brian's Garden is in memory of Brian Pavel and dedicated to organ and tissue donors, recipients, and their families. It is a place for all people to come and find peace.
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Type of Loss
Loss of Child
Was the loss anticipated or sudden?
Sudden
Was your loved one an organ/tissue/cornea donor?
Yes
Are you a professional that can offer assistance on grief/loss issues
No
We lost our 28 year old son, Brian, on November 1, 2007. His death came as the result of a construction accident where he was not provided with the appropriate safety equipment. It is still hard to accept because it could have been prevented. We try not to dwell on that as anger can eat you up very quickly. Our goal is to address safety issues and make changes. We've learned that patience is more than a virtue in that area. Only time will tell if we achieve any success.

Brian was a good, kind hearted soul. I think his main goal in life was to help the underdogs of this world, be they human or animal. He loved nature and took his camera with him everywhere. His photos have become such a blessing to us. It is so calming to look at his photos and see the world though his eyes. He spent a lot of time hiking our area, going cross country/off trail to get the "good shots". We are so thankful that he labeled everything so that we know where they were taken. And he loved his animals. His adopted BLM wild mustang is living with us now. "Jesse" (named after the outlaw because of his rebel nature) is special to us and reminds us daily of Brian's ever patient love for this horse. Adopted as a 10 year old stallion, Brian earned his trust and made him a gentle soul to be around.

We miss Brian every day. I hold on to the memory of the sound of his voice, to the memory of the walks we took together looking for wild flowers in the pasture. I even hold on to the memory of the disagreements we had. They all were Brian. We still love him so!

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At 10:26am on June 18, 2009, Kim MorschingKim Morsching said…
Oh, Carol. What a beautiful posting. Love your garden picture. Brian would love your efforts.

Love you

Kim

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